Could you be missing your child’s childhood? Modern parents struggle with something that parents of previous generations never did–the persistence of the cell phone/smart phone/internet. Even 10 years ago, the use of these devices was not so everpresent in our lives. By being plugged in, we can actually miss our children’s childhood. We discuss what we can do to ensure we don’t miss our children’s lives while still living in the modern age.
For more information, see this blog: http://www.handsfreemama.com/2012/05/07/how-to-miss-a-childhood/
“I can recall a time when you were out with your children you were really with them. You engaged in a back and forth dialog even if they were pre-verbal. You said, ‘Look at the bus, see the doggie, etc.’ Now I see you on the phone, pushing your kids on the swings while distracted by your devices. You think you are spending time with them but you are not present really. When I see you pick up your kids at day care while you’re on the phone, it breaks my heart. They hear your adult conversations. What do they overhear? What is the message they receive? I am not important; I am not important.”