Tag: Parenting

Choosing Their Own Clothes

When should you let your child choose her own clothes and should you worry about how he is dressed when he leaves the house (no coat in winter for example).  Seasoned mothers who have survived years of the battle discuss what is important and what you should let slide.

Mothering Ourselves on Mother’s Day

Dr. Andie discusses the actual roots of Mother’s Day and how we can recapture its essence and have a wonderful day ourselves by taking care of ourselves.  Dr. Andie is the author of More than Saying I Love You.  This show is just what you need to make Mother’s Day great for yourself.

Teaching Children to Love Themselves

This week on Athena 365 and The MOM Podcast Dr. Andie discusses how to teach kids to love themselves so that they do not seek approval from outside sources. Dr. Andie’s new book More Than Saying I Love You: 4 Powerful Steps that Help Children Love Themselves is an excellent resource for parents to teach their child the greatest skill they can—how to truly love yourself so that you do not need to rely on others for affirmation. Dr. Andie is a mother and grandmother so she knows the road we walk.  Learn answers to the following questions:

  1. Why isn’t just saying, “I love you” enough to create children that love themselves?
  2. What is the difference between self-love and self-esteem?
  3. What are the benefits of children learning to love themselves?
  4. Does self-love or “I love me” lead to narcissism and being egotistical?
  5. At what age do we begin teaching our children about loving themselves?
  6. What are the external forces that erode a child’s birthright of love?
  7. What are the 4 steps that help children love themselves?

Click on the show to the right to learn more!

The Body Snatchers–Kids Moving from Tween to Teen

Wonder if your creature living in your child’s room really genetically connected to you?  He used to be your son, but now he is an emotional mess.  Maggie Stevens, author of Parent Fix, discusses how to weather the tween years and the transition to teen years.

The Stewardship System

Stacey discusses her experience in the summer with the Stewardship System, her method of giving children responsibility for the household chores and teaching them about real life.  She says this is the best thing she has ever done!

How Stress Manifests Part 2: To Label or Not with Claire Lerner

Our discussion about Stress with Kids continues with Claire Lerner as we discuss whether or not it is good to label your child and how to help your child without making a big issue of your child’s needs.

This is Part 2 of a 2 Part discussion.

Creating a Safe Haven

Maggie Stevens, author of Parent Fix discusses how to create a safe haven in your house so that your child will always want to come home and share with you–the best way to ensure that your child will be safe in the world.

Importance of Family Vacations and Holidays

They take too long, cost too much and are too much work.  Are vacations and holiday times worth it for the family?  Why not just stay home?  We discuss why they are important even when the family gets stuck in a blizzard driving across Oklahoma or running to catch a connecting flight in 10 minutes.

Time for Each Child

As we discussed with Claire, it is important to make time for each child.  We discuss ways this can be done if you have 2 04 9 children and some innovative ideas to make each child feel special.

Carving out Family Time with Claire Lerner

We talk with Claire Lerner about how computers are invading our families and how to set some guidelines to make sure we spend enough time interacting with more than just our virtual family members.  This show is filled with great ideas on how to deal with the onslaught of media coming at our precious family time.

Check out our other show on Digital Nation for an insightful discussion on media and the family.

The Florida Report

Nancy and her family just returned from Florida. Hear about the trip and what everyone liked best.  There are tips to make your next trip enjoyable.  Also, see the video podcast of Alex at Disney YES and see Nancy’s other podcasts at www.iseekissimmee.com.

When to Discuss the Birds and Bees

You might need to have that talk sooner than you think.  Diana Ruschhaupt of the    Ruth Lilly Health Education Center shares timing, tips and resources for you to make the discussion easier on you and your children.  Also check out the resources she recommends:

Books By Lynda Madaras

Website: KidsHealth.org

Girls: The Care and Keeping of You

Unrealistic Fears with Claire Lerner

Children can be afraid of small things like smoke detectors or the wind.  Claire Lerner explains to Nancy how to help her daughter’s fear of the wind and help her learn to work through things when she is afraid.

The Dad Show

We talk to Matthew, host of The Dad show, a podcast by dads discussing parenting topics.

Dad Show Topics Include:

  • Games to play with kids
  • Waiting for Dad to punish kids
  • College and money
  • What kids learn from how Dad treats Mom
  • Kids, money and chores
  • Much more . . .

School Update

We discuss Stacey’s experience home schooling a child and where she has her children now.  She shares her struggle to find the right place for her children and for herself and we discuss how much these decisions affect a child’s future.

Teaching Preschoolers Joy with Joy School

Not found a preschool yet or looking for something more than the ABCs?  Want your child to be emotionally ready for school? Nationally acclaimed author Linda Eyre discusses how to teach children joy using the Joy School program.  Both Stacey and Nancy have had children in Joy School and found it to be an amazing experience.  Learn why!

AND–We were nominated for the Best of Salt Lake 2010 as the Best Resource for info for Moms!  Whooo Hooo!

For more information on Joy School, go to JoySchools.com and for more on Values Parenting programs, go to ValuesParenting.com.

How to Find Good Movies, Books, Apps and More

As a parent, it is often a challenge to know if a movie, website, book, song, or app is appropriate for our children at their specific age.  And how do we talk to them about things like Facebook?  We discuss what we find useful to help us choose for our children.   One resource we discuss is Common Sense Media.  Others include Squeaky Clean Reads and Good Reads if you have friends you trust who have posted books in their list.

You can also check our list of summer reads for Boys Only! http://www.themompodcast.com/2010/06/27/summer-reading-fun/

Mom I’m Bored

Those dreaded summer words–We discuss how to deal with them and ideas to get rid of the boredom blues (yours and your child’s).

Book Clubs for Boys Only

Boys sometimes have a harder time getting interested in books.  One way to solve that is to start a book club for boys only. Laura Blum, mother of 4 and reading advocate, discusses how she turned her reluctant readers into great readers and how you can too!

Check out her site and some great ideas at http://bookclub4boysinfo.blogspot.com/2008/12/start-book-club-for-your-boy.html

UPDATE:  Nancy’s son and his friends met for the first Boys Only Book Club and about 50% of the kids showed up, but they had fun and Barnes and Noble was very accommodating to help them choose books.  They chose Alcatraz Versus the Evil Librarians.  They will be meeting every 3 weeks over the summer to get them interested in reading.  They also joined the Barnes and Noble reading plan, the Borders reading plan and a local library reading plan that all give freebies to kids who read.

Being a Single Mother

Claire Lerner, director of parent resources at Zero to Three and psychotherapist, discusses the struggles and joys of being a single mother.  She shares tips on how to make single motherhood enjoyable and successful.